I’m so sick of guys complaining about how “nice” guys finish last, like STFU

instead of thinking she doesn’t like me because I’m too nice

there are actually a lot of reasons why she might not like you

a few possible points I can think of from the top of my head: maybe your breath smells? you come off as a creep? you have no sense of humor? you guys have nothing in common? you can’t hold a normal conversation? 

or maybe it’s just YOU

what I mean is, you becoming “un-nice” or an asshole does that make you suddenly so much more attractive or likable 

is it really that hard to understand that she is just not interested in you?

emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually…whateverly

JUST.NOT.INTERESTED

and for future reference to the dudes

girls love nice guys

but if ‘nice’ is all you have going for you, I say good luck to your future offsprings

p.s and in some super super super rare case, if the girl flat out admits that she would like you more if you weren’t so nice then my apologies. She’s just dumb

and if you still like her despite of that then you’re also dumb. 

06.03.12 @ 17:24♥6

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When things in your life seem, almost too much to handle,When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.When the class began, wordlessly,He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jarAnd proceeded to fill it with golf balls.He then asked the students, if the jar was full.They agreed that it was.The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and pouredthem into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.The pebbles rolled into the open Areas between the golf balls.He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.Of course, the sand filled up everything else.He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous ‘yes.’The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectivelyfilling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.‘Now,’ said the professor, as the laughter subsided,‘I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.The golf balls are the important things - family,children, health, Friends, and Favorite passions – Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, Your life would still be full.The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car.The sand is everything else —The small stuff.‘If you put the sand into the jar first,’ He continued,there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.The same goes for life.If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,You will never have room for the things that are important to you.So…Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.Play With your children.Take time to get medical checkups.Take your partner out to dinner.There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.‘Take care of the golf balls first —The things that really matter.Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.The professor smiled‘I’m glad you asked’.It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,There’s always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.’♥

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